Long-distance couples
Stay close without matching schedules.
Long-distance couples
A little space for the two of you. Answer the same question in your own time, then open your letters together after your chosen reveal time.
Meet your daily ritualComing soon to iPhone.



The same prompt, delivered to both of you.


Write whenever you like. Neither person can peek.


Both answers sealed. Your chosen reveal time. Two letters to open together.


Stay close without matching schedules.
Long-distance couplesKeep discovering the little things.
Newer couplesMake room for new stories.
Long-term couplesYour answers stay between you. They are never public, sold, or used to train AI.
Deary began with one long-distance couple who wanted something small to share each day.
Our story
Deary is for two adults in a couple, of any gender or orientation. Together at home or miles apart, you each have your own account and one private space together.
Eligible monthly and annual subscriptions include three days of full Deary access for both of you, including Explore. The trial starts when Apple confirms your subscription and renews at the displayed price unless cancelled at least 24 hours before it ends.
No. One monthly, annual or lifetime purchase covers both connected partners. Apple handles payment. Your revealed memories stay readable after a subscription ends.
No. Your words stay private until the reveal. If partner activity is enabled, they may see that you are writing or that your letter is sealed, but never the text.
Either of you can skip it. Either person’s topic exclusions protect both of you. Sex and intimacy questions appear only when you both opt in.
No. There are no scores, advice, or relationship analysis.
Deary is coming to iPhone in the UK, US, and EU.

Launch availability will be posted here.