One question.
Two sealed answers.
A private daily question for the two of you.
A little more to talk about tonight.
Answer.
The same question each morning.
Write in your own time.Keep it sealed.
Your words stay private until you’ve both answered and your reveal time arrives.
Open together.
Read, reply, and keep the moment in your shared timeline.
Just between you.
Your answers are never public, sold, or used to train AI.
Our privacy promiseIs Deary for us?
Deary is for two adults in a couple, of any gender or orientation. Whether you live together or far apart, you each have your own account and one private space together. There are no scores or relationship advice.
Do we both need to pay?
No. One monthly, annual or lifetime purchase covers both connected partners. Eligible monthly and annual subscriptions include a three-day trial and renew at the displayed price unless cancelled at least 24 hours before it ends. Apple handles payment. Your revealed memories stay readable after a subscription ends.
Can my partner see my answer while I’m writing?
No. Your words stay private until the reveal. If partner activity is enabled, they may see that you are writing or that your letter is sealed, but never the text.
What if a question doesn’t feel right?
Either of you can skip it. Either person’s topic exclusions protect both of you. Sex and intimacy questions appear only when you both opt in.
Coming soon to iPhone.
UK, US and EU.