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One question. Two sealed answers.

The same question arrives each morning. Your answers open together at your chosen reveal time, once you have both answered.

Meet your daily ritual

Coming soon to iPhone.

Three daily questions free. No trial. No automatic charge. One purchase then unlocks both of you.

A Deary answer safely sealed until both letters can open
Today in Deary, showing a private daily question
Deary calmly guarding two sealed letters

From morning to tonight.

  1. 01 · Morning

    One question arrives.

    The same prompt, delivered to both of you.

    Today in Deary, showing the couple’s daily question
  2. 02 · Your day

    Your answer stays sealed.

    Write whenever you like. Neither person can peek.

    A Deary answer sealed until both people are ready
  3. 03 · Tonight

    Open together.

    Both answers sealed. Your chosen reveal time. Two letters to open together.

    Both answers open together in Deary
How it works

For every kind of couple.

Your relationship is not content.

Your answers stay between you. They are never public, sold, or used to train AI.

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Made across the miles.

Deary began with one long-distance couple who wanted something small to share each day.

Our story

From the Deary journal.

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Good to know.

Is Deary for us?

Deary is for two adults in a couple, of any gender or orientation. Together at home or miles apart, you each have your own account and one private space together.

How do the three free questions work?

Pair your accounts, then open three daily questions together for free. There is no time limit and no automatic charge. Explore requires paid access.

Do we both need to pay?

No. One monthly, annual or lifetime purchase covers both connected partners. Apple handles payment. Your revealed memories stay readable after a subscription ends, and a free Sunday question remains available.

Can my partner see my answer while I’m writing?

No. They can see that it is ready, not what it says.

What if a question does not feel right today?

Either of you can skip it. Either person’s topic exclusions protect both of you. Sex and intimacy questions appear only when you both opt in.

Does Deary analyse our relationship?

No. There are no scores, advice, or relationship analysis.

When will Deary be available?

Deary is coming to iPhone in the UK, US, and EU.

Deary is coming to iPhone.

Launch availability will be posted here.

Coming soon to iPhone.

Three daily questions free. No trial. No automatic charge. One purchase then unlocks both of you.